Are you feeling defeat because of sin, or frustrated over circumstances? This is often the result replacing theology with a blend of toxic ideologies, half-truths, and human wisdom. If that sounds like you, perhaps you’ve embraced a form of me-ology.
God's will is that we have Christian relationships that are open and honest, brothers or sisters to whom we can confess our failings (Jas. 5.16). If we don't, it's doubtful whether we actually have Christian relationships at all. But we need to be honest about the danger of honesty.